Crossing the Threshold

A discussion of the wedding custom of carrying the bride across the threshold.

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Superstition:   The lore and symbolism surrounding the custom of carrying the bride across the threshold.

Origins:   Even the most unsuperstitious and least tradition-bound will stoop to observing the custom of having the groom carry his bride over the threshold.


Nowadays, that threshold has come to mean the doorway into their hotel room, but those who are going to an actual house should play it safe and treat both the main door and the door to the bedroom as important thresholds to hoist the new Mrs. over.

This tradition comes down to us from Roman times when observing it indicated that a bride sacrificed her virginity with appropriate reluctance in that she had to be carried to her deflowering lest she get away if set down. These days, most people just see the practice as a general luck-bringer, one possibly linked to any number of cautions against tripping over a threshold. By carrying the bride over this barrier, she at least is spared the possibility of tripping and thus triggering this particular brand of ill luck.

Barbara “tripping the light fantastic” Mikkelson

Last updated:   27 June 2005


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