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Sympathy for the Deviled

Claim:   False reports of loved ones lost in the attack on the World Trade Center have been filed by those looking for attention and sympathy.

Status:   True.

Origins:   Times of great tragedy bring out the best and the worst in people. We've witnessed countless acts of courage and selflessness in the wake of the September 11 terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center and Pentagon, but we've also seen a number of cases of those who will stop at nothing to grab for themselves a little bit of the spotlight cast by these horrific events.

Five such instances are: What to say of such people and their motivation for telling such dastardly lies? Granted, sometimes financial reward plays a part in the drive to create such fictions, but a far larger part can be attributed to a form of a condition known as Munchausen syndrome by proxy.

In textbook Munchausen, sufferers fabricate histories of illnesses and injure themselves in an effort to gain the sympathy and attention of those around them. They may go so far as to seek out painful medical treatments for non-existent ills and put themselves through unnecessary surgeries.

Munchausen syndrome by proxy is similar attention-gaining behavior inflicted on those in the charge of the person looking for affirmation. Children of such folk are subjected to all manner of physical tampering provided it produces an effect that will bring laudatory attention to the parent, who will be perceived as brave and stoic in the face of never-ending tragedy. Children have been severely deformed by MSBP parents and have even died at their
hands.

The American Psychiatric Association recognizes Munchausen Syndrome as a psychiatric disorder, describing it as "intentional production of physical symptoms." It does not as yet recognize MSBP as such.

Although most of the time MSBP manifests itself as physical harm inflicted on another, it can take the far milder form of mere reportage of disaster having befallen someone related to the attention-getter. Thus, a mother will report her child abducted when in fact the youngster is playing safely in the next room, because there is much attention and heartfelt sympathy to be gained from being the parent of a kidnapped child. Likewise, such folk will fabricate horrific personal histories peopled with relatives (often children or spouses) who died in especially gut-wrenching fashion or as one of the many to perish in a front-page tragedy of epic proportions.

The duped Miami journalist classed Waldo Fernandez (#5 on our list) a "cruel, pathetic liar." Those who stumble over the pronunciation of "Munchausen syndrome by proxy" may find that characterization easier to twist a tongue around.

Barbara "harps and lyres" Mikkelson

Last updated:   21 April 2008

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  Sources Sources:
    Bailey, Ian.   "Politicians, Co-Workers Taken in by Woman's Bogus Trade Center Tale."
    National Post.   27 September 2001.

    Bashinsky, Ruth and Alice McQuillan.   "Tragic Story Really a Hoax."
    [New York] Daily News.   28 September 2001   (p. 24).

    Colangelo, Lisa and Bill Hutchinson.   "Nab Woman in Phony Rescue Plea."
    [New York] Daily News.   15 September 2001   (p. 44).

    de la Cruz, Donna.   "New Jersey Man Who Told Heartbreaking Tale of Loss Arrested."
    Associated Press.   28 September 2001.

    Dimmock, Gary.   "A New Jersey Father Weeps for His Missing Daughter."
    The Ottawa Citizen.   17 September 2001   (p. A7).

    Hays, Tom.   "Amid Heroism, Mischief and Deceit."
    Associated Press.   16 September 2001.

    McShane, Larry.   "Rain and Muck Dampen Trade Center Rescue Efforts."
    Associated Press.   14 September 2001.

    Miami Herald.   "Among Terrorism's Victims Lies the Son He Never Met."
    20 September 2001.

    Miami Herald.   "Tale of Sorrow Doesn't Ring True."
    1 October 2001.

    The New York Post.   "Tale of Lost Wife and Child a Hoax."
    25 September 2001   (p. O29).

    The New York Times.   "2 Accused of False Reports."
    28 September 2001   (p. B9).