Example: [Collected via e-mail, March 2012]
"Hi darling, it's Peter, I'm on the train - yes, I know it's the 6.30 not the 4.30 but I had a long meeting - no, not with that floozy from the typing pool, with the boss..... no darling, you're the only one in my life - yes, I'm sure, cross my heart." etc., etc.
This was still going on at Wimbledon, when the young woman opposite him, driven beyond endurance, yelled at the top of her voice -
"Hey, Peter, turn that bloody phone off and come back to bed!!"
- The journey being taken by the bystander who overhears the exchange is from Waterloo to Winchester or from Strathfield to Gosford.
- While Peter is usually the name of the fellow making the annoying call, in some tellings he is dubbed John.
- The fed-up female passenger who summons Peter (or John) back to bed does so at Wimbledon or Hornsby.
As satisfying a yarn as this is, it's likely better regarded as a story about an imagined revenge rather than an account of an actual incident. It offers no checkable datapoints that can independently be verified, not so much as date, location, or full names of those involved. The few details that flesh out the anecdote (which cities the train was traveling between, the first name of the man making the call, where along the route the fed up female passenger inserted herself into the conversation) change from telling to telling, as evidenced by the Variations section listed above.
Moreover, certain turns of phrase within it give one pause. While floozy has been recorded as part of the English language since 1911, it's rarely encountered these days, other slang for "woman of disreputable character" having mostly displaced it. Then there's the matter of
Key to grasping that the story is more anecdote than truth is noting the "Hi darling, it's Peter"
Although this item was presented as a true story in the Sydney Morning Herald in late-March 2012, our earliest sighting of the tale was a
A day after running the bit, the Sydney Morning Herald sheepishly admitted to having been given "a right royal bucketing" from its readers for presenting as a news item what it subsequently discovered was an Internet-spread anecdote of dubious origin.
As a society we remain uncertain as to what is appropriate when it comes to cell phones (e.g., should they be used in public lavatories), but as with anything else, one always knows when a line has been crossed even when it's impossible to define its precise location. Overly loud, boorish conversations inflicted upon others are social transgressions, especially in locales from which there is no easy escape. The fictional gal in this particular legend answered rudeness with rudeness by inserting herself into the exchange between a man and his wife, thereby dealing the lout a sharp, quick lesson about the downside to forcing his private conversations upon strangers; but we are all supposed to take from this tale the realization that there is sometimes a price to be paid for being
Telephones and self-important conversations carried out on them feature in another urban legend, one in which an uninstalled or
Barbara "cell blocked" Mikkelson
Last updated: 16 April 2012
The Sydney Morning Herald. "Column 8." 28 March 2012. The Sydney Morning Herald. "Column 8." 29 March 2012.